How Will the Miracle Happen Today? “Kindness is like a breath. It can be squeezed out, or drawn in. You can wait for it, or you can summon it. To solicit a gift from a stranger takes a certain state of openness.”
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Is this a joke? "In the Philippines a family living in a shack opened their last can of tinned meat as a banquet for me, a stranger who needed a place to crash."
You are saying that you have gifted this poor family who is down to their very last can of food with your ....taking from them??? How about instead of fucking off to Asia, you get a job and try to support yourself? I get it...times are hard, and maybe you have to depend on the kindness of others. There is no shame in that. But don't make it into some kind of gift you are giving them. They are giving you the gift, buddy. You are giving them one more thing to worry about in their difficult day.
I get grifter vibes for sure from the writer. The concept of being open and able to accept help I am behind 100%. I also believe in karma. You have to be ready to, or working on, passing along what the universe has given to you. It doesn't seem like he is given back to the universe very much.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kevin_Kelly_(editor)
Thank you Alexander. He has receipts. But I still wish he'd balanced the thought with what you get you give back.
This is a survivor bias piece. Did the 17-year-old Target employee in Minneapolis, beaten by ICE, sobbing "I'm not ok," insufficiently manifest his miracle desire? This is the kind of thing a privileged white male who's led a charmed life universalizes into some supposedly profound insight that is an insult to everyone who has experienced the unkindness of humanity. I get the gauzy, "Oh gosh, isn't this swell," appeal of this piece, but it feels decidedly unkind to proclaim this is how the universe works.
I guess we're just "Holding it wrong."
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